As I was once asked by my editor, (Not mentioning any names Deb) are you afraid of foreplay? I hate, no I loathe writing sex scenes. I feel like a teenager trying to get away with something as my words appear across the screen. I'm never sure if it sounds right, real. Seriously how many of us use the words manhood, pulsating, etc. when referring to our mates?
Today I found myself giggling as I tried to write a nipple licking scene. I got through it, but not before turning scarlet and feeling a need to open my bible.
Yes, I am overcome with guilt when I write sex scenes. It's as though I am the one physically there being pleasured by some strange man (I wish). God forbid my grandma calls while I am writing or I suddenly feel as though I am keeping a dirty little secret and can't write anymore for the rest of the day. Could be the mood is killed I guess.
All in all the point of this post was writing sex scenes sucks and I know I'm not the only one that feels this way. I have talked to so many authors who hate writing them as much if not more than I do. They are the thorn in the back of most romance writers. I envy erotica writers who can whiz through these scenes making a great tale from pure sex. I think I need some lessons.
Steph
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